When the Good Days Outweigh the Bad

Jen SIncero Book

Happy Monday Refined Tribe!

I am feeling inspired today to share a little more about myself and why I launched the Refined Tribe brand. I know it’s pretty obvious that I love purple, things that reflect beauty and opulence, and sharing new experiences with old friends. But let’s break it down… the why? Why do create opportunities for my friends to succeed? What does it mean to be a connector? Why should you attend an upcoming workshop, meet-up or event? Why do any of this at all?


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It starts with a feeling… You know that deep in your gut, the intuition meter is at an all-time high and you can’t stop smiling because you know you are right where you are meant to be. We all wish we could bottle up that feeling and open it on a rainy day. But that is what drives me to pursue this dream. Every day, I wake up with a feeling of pure excitement to see my friends, family, clients and the new possibilities. And you know what? You can have that too. When we choose the way we want to live and take responsibilities for our actions, the endless possibilities open up. I will admit, I do have my bad days but the good definitely outweighs the bad. That my friend is called perspective. Let’s say you woke and poured yourself a hot cup of cofee. While the coffee was boiling you ran into the other room to check your email inbox. You open an urgent message only to find out some really terrible news. You take a deep breath, walk away for a moment and go pour yourself a cup of coffee. Now at that moment, you have two choices- accept or react. Many of us spend our days reacting. Reacting to traffic, reacting to our bad news, reacting to every little thing. It compounds throughout the day until we are just on the point of exhaustion from reacting. Now imagine if instead we took the alternate route and accepted things for as they are. I know it sounds like an easy-out option but it really is quite simple on the road to self-awareness.


How does this relate to the Refined Tribe? Well because I have accepted my role in this community. A modern-day fairy godmother, you might say! Haha. The commonalities are very simple and intentional. I am a solution-based advisor. With a flick of my wand (or I guess you can insert cell phone in this tale), I find new pathways and opportunities for my colleagues and clients. I have developed a one-on-one coaching program, monthly workshops and coffee meet-ups for business professionals that are serious about elevating their careers. Whether you have been in the industry for a quarter of a century or are diving in head first, it’s always smart to set a plan and use your resources to achieve it. That’s why I created these outlets, as tools to help further your career and build your network. If you aren’t adding in new opportunities to push you, then you’ll never get outside your comfort zone and reach for something greater!

If you’re looking for a boost in your career or a group of like-minded individuals to become your biggest cheerleaders, then you should think about joining our next Refined Tribe workshop on March 18th! We’ll be identifying the foundational pillars of any successful business and ways to utilize your network as ambassadors of your brand. If you’re reading this take a chance to make a change.

Xo,

Suher


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